Tuesday, July 16, 2013

Start a Fight: The New Self Defense



This George Zimmerman case is bothering me.  From the beginning I have been disgusted by the death of Trayvon Martin.  Now following the verdict I continue to be disgusted.

Don’t get me wrong, I can see the reason for the verdict.  Florida has the most lenient self defense laws around and based on the evidence and the charges pursued it really wasn’t a surprise.  I am liberal enough that I do feel that unless all reasonable doubt has been removed the right choice is not guilty.  I am also rational enough to know that sometimes your gut tells you when something is wrong, even if based on our court system the person facing charges must be let go.  It can be flawed, but it is a decent system designed to (hopefully) prevent the innocent from being wrongly convicted.  Sometimes the innocent are found guilty, sometimes the guilty go free, but as a perfect system is not possible I am not disgusted by the system we have.  Sometimes our laws do interfere with the right judgment being made.

I haven’t followed the case extensively; I just don’t have the time for that kind of thing.  I acknowledge that Trayvon wasn’t an angel.  I’ve read he had a few run ins with the authorities in the past, but then again from what I’ve read the same could be said for George.  It is clear that Trayvon wasn’t up to anything, he was just walking; George didn’t know this, but then again I feel that it shows a certain level of bias that his assumption was the kid was up to no good.  He called 911, which I think is a realistic thing to do if you have concerns.  I once called the police because I saw someone messing with a manhole in the street in front of our house in the middle of the night.  The police checked and found that city workers had been called in for an emergency situation.  I did what I think most normal people would do, contact authorities instead of directly approaching a person.  George decided, despite the recommendation from the operator not to, to follow and approach Trayvon.  This seems to be the big disagreement point, what followed after George notified 911.  I have seen, in my opinion, far too many people that feel George was in the right in following and approaching Trayvon, that Trayvon’s reaction (which isn’t clear) and the altercation that happened justified George in shooting Trayvon.

Let me tell you a little story.  Back when I was pregnant with my oldest child I had a prenatal appointment.  The only parking was in a poorly lit parking deck attached to the office.  The parking deck is incredibly poorly lit; during the day it is dark enough in the parking deck that you actually have to turn on your headlights (which on more than one occasion resulted in me forgetting to turn them off and running out my battery.)  At night the lights come on inside, but during the day they’re not on and the natural light is just horrible.  I had asked my husband to join me, but he had to work, didn’t think he’d be able to leave early, so he said he wouldn’t be able to make it.  I take a long lunch from work, drive to the parking deck, and can only find a parking space deep in the deck because of all the other offices in the building.  I gathered up my things (the purse and such), huffed and puffed my way out of my car (which word of warning, if you find out you’re pregnant and have a car that sits really low, just sell it or eventually you’ll be considering a winch to get you out.)  As I walked towards the offices I hear footsteps behind me.  I glanced and saw what seemed to be a male walking behind me.  It was dark enough that only the general shape of the person could be made out.  That wasn’t that uncommon, like I said there are quite a few doctors’ offices there.  Then I heard the steps quicken.  If you are female, you know the last thing you want to hear when in a dark area and no one else is around are footsteps following you quickly.  I tried to pick up my pace, as best as I could as I waddled along.  The footsteps behind me picked up their pace.  This is what you might call an “oh crap” moment.  I’m not much of a runner, and most women will tell you that running while pregnant is pretty difficult (except for those rare women that continue to run a mile until the day they go into labor.)  I still had a way to go, so running wasn’t a great option.  I do, habitually, carry a rather large purse and have for a rather long time.  I’m one of those people that carry everything but the kitchen sink in my purse.  My purses are big and hefty enough that at times it makes my shoulder and back hurt.  I shifted my keys so one was poking out of my fist.  I grabbed my purse strap as if I was adjusting it as I heard the steps right behind me.  I suddenly spun around and swung my purse right at the person behind me.  I am kind of proud, my aim was dead on.  I managed to give my husband a really good whack with the purse.  

I didn’t know it, but my husband did manage to get out of work early.  He was sweet and decided to surprise me.  He did a marvelous job of it!  He saw me park, and parked a few spaces away.  I was so occupied trying to get out I didn’t pay attention to that.  There was no threat at all.  He didn’t say anything because he saw me glance at him and thought I was able to tell it was him.  He was just trying to catch up to me.  He was sweet, and I yelled at him to never do that to me again.  Why?  And also, why in the world would this man later buy me pepper spray??

Back to the first “why?”  I think it is our natural response to feel threatened if someone is following us in the dark.  This is a reaction that is ingrained into us.  It goes back to our incredibly distant ancestors.  In the days of hunters and gatherers becoming alarmed by possible threats in the dark helped keep them alive.  This turned into the instinct that we have today.  When we feel threatened it brings about our fight or flight response.  It is only rational to believe that as Trayvon realized some strange man was following him that he would begin to feel the rush of adrenaline and the beginnings of the urge to flee or fight.  He could have run.  Really though, if he ran people would have used that as proof that he was up to no good, and considering George’s already gung-ho actions it is possible he would have shot a running Trayvon under the belief that he was trying to stop someone guilty of a crime.  Because why would an innocent man run?  Unless he’s scared of a stranger coming towards him in the dark.  Apparently Trayvon went with fight.  There is nothing that shows exactly who threw the first punch, the exact sequence of events.  Maybe Trayvon did turn around, on the offense, and become hostile towards George.  This isn’t exactly a surprising reaction though, if he did it.  I can’t say that I would be shocked if this was his reaction though.  My own harmless incident, I didn’t politely turn around and ask the person behind me who he was and if his intention was to rob me, rape me, abduct me, or maybe some combination.  In hindsight, instead of whapping my innocent husband with a heavy purse I could have whapped an innocent stranger with my purse.  Our instincts don’t tell us that when we encounter a perceived threat to stop and talk about the situation; we are not wired that way.

While the racial overtones of the case are alarming, I am most disgusted by the most basic facts of the case.  A male spots another male that he thinks could be a potential threat to someone (not himself or any specific person, just a potential threat to anyone in the general population.)  After alerting the authorities, who encourage him not to do so, he decides to follow and approach that potentially threatening male.  An altercation ensues, in which the male decides to shoot the potentially threatening male.  Realistically, stripped down it could almost sound like self defense, except for the fact that the male (George) pursued the altercation with someone that wasn’t doing anything more suspicious then being somewhere that the male (George) felt the potentially threatening male didn’t belong.  I prefer a more traditional view of self defense.  I see self defense as a threat comes to you and you then use necessary means to stop this threat.  I even go so far as necessary means if another person’s life is in danger.  I kind of have the old view of “don’t start nuthin’, won’t be nuthin’.”  If you don’t go and seek out the altercation, then it won’t start and you won’t have to feel like you are in danger.  George Zimmerman felt threatened when he got out of his car with a gun, then followed a stranger, and an altercation with that stranger ensued.  He felt threatened.  I wonder how Trayvon felt when he was followed in the night by a stranger.

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